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If your sex life seems to be stalled in one place and you feel you may not be fully satisfied, then today’s post may help. Here are some sexy new ideas that may blow some oxygen on the fire of your stale love life. We’ve included a variety of different ideas and none of them are too difficult, so there’s a good chance you will find exactly what you need!
Your Partner
One of the best ways to spice up your sex life and add heat to your love life is listening to your partner. Communication is important and you can learn a lot just by asking. This topic may be difficult for some to talk about, and if that’s the case you may try using bedroom games to break the ice.
There are many adult games you can play in bed like naughty card games, dirty dice games, and fun board games. You may also try dolls, action figures, and stuffed animals to explore your desires in a non-verbal way.
Supplies
Sex supplies include things like condoms, personal lubricants for intimate moments, flavored lubes for oral sex, and scented massage oils to spice up your sex life.
You can use edible, flavored lubes on any part of the body, not just genitals. You might start with the back of the hand, the neck, or a finger. And don’t forget the value of massage. The sensual feeling of a luxurious massage with scented oils can relax anyone, which may make discussing some subjects easier.
Novelty condoms can serve the same purpose, by stimulating conversation and giving you inspiration for sexy new ideas. You may not even have to wear them.
Playful BDSM
Not everyone is into it, but you and your partner aren’t everyone, right? Many couples have discovered that simple BDSM equipment and light bondage and discipline can ignite the flames of renewed passion and spice up your sex life.
It’s not all about whips, chains, handcuffs, and electrified nipple clamps. There are many levels of BDSM you can try without getting extreme. Light bondage, for example, is an easy way to begin.
You can engage in light bondage with materials you find around the home, like ties, nylons, and thick cords, for example. It won’t be perfect but you’ll get the idea, and you can buy special equipment later if you like. Make sure to use cords that aren’t too thin, take care to not cut off circulation, and make sure to have a way to remove cords quickly and safely if something goes wrong.
Cock Rings
There are lots of different cock rings on the market from basic to deluxe, and they offer an easy way to try something sexy and new.
The idea behind a cock ring is to trap blood in the penis. This can enhance an erection and may lead to more intense climaxes for the wearer and the wear-ee. It’s a great way to spice up your sex life.
Basic men’s cock rings are smooth and constrict the base of the penis. Next come cock rings with bumps, ridges, and soft spikes. Vibrating rings are next, with built-in motors or a place to insert a bullet vibrator. At the top of the cock ring heap are advanced products that offer different vibration settings and features that stimulate the scrotum, clitoris, G-spot, perineum, and anus! These men’s sexual toys are easy to find and easy to use.
Role-Playing
Role-playing is the act of assuming the character of another person and acting out a role to spice up your sex life. The other character can be anything or anyone, and the role can be whatever you would like it to be. This activity can help you get out of your skin and try new things that you and your partner may not be able to approach in other ways. Basic ideas for role-playing include:
- Traveler and local guide
- Strangers in a bar
- A celebrity and a fan
- Teacher and student
- Police officer and suspect
This activity can be psychologically healthy, fun, and sexy. Any new idea for a role or character is fair game, and roles like guard/prisoner and master/slave can work well in BDSM scenarios.
Abstinence
Absence does make the heart grow fonder and it can also increase levels of sex hormones like testosterone and help to spice up your sex life. While those who don’t have the luxury of getting sex all the time face abstinence from lack of opportunity, others who are in good relationships often do not. If you think this has contributed to your sexual boredom, then it may be easy to address by simply not having sex for a while.
Set a date and try a week or two without sex (including masturbation). You may discover yourself yearning for “sex day” to arrive early and have a renewed flush of sexually oriented thoughts and feelings. It may make your next encounter explosive and more satisfying than getting your rocks off on a regular basis.
Never Forget What is Really Important
If you are wondering how to spice up your sex life, then you may be in a great position to reap the full rewards of a healthy sexual relationship, so don’t get complacent. People and relationships can change in an instant, so you may want to take this opportunity to express your love for each other and cement your relationship. We hope this post has given you some ideas for sexy new things to try.
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